'Future faking' refers to the act of making promises about a shared future that are not backed by genuine intent (Image: Getty)
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Future Faking: Dating's Biggest Red Flag Ruining Relationships and Mental Health

  • Future faking involves making promises about a shared future without genuine intent to fulfill them, often disguised as sincere commitment.
  • It can be a manipulative tactic used to create emotional dependence, extract loyalty, or avoid accountability, especially by individuals with narcissistic tendencies.
  • Ayesha Sharma from Bengaluru and Maya Kapoor from Mumbai experienced partners who made grand future promises but failed to follow through on practical steps.
  • The emotional toll includes heightened anxiety, declining self-esteem, and depression due to repeated cycles of hope and disappointment.
  • Red flags include repeated disappointment, promises without practical action, resistance to planning, and vague timelines that never become specific.

Why It Matters: Future faking is a manipulative dating pattern where grand promises about the future lack genuine intent and follow-through.

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